Why are Men like that????

Argh.....Seriously. Why can't a guy ever say "Yep. I fucked up. Sorry. My bad."
Last night we were getting ready to BBQ and hubby opened the back door and Kodiak took off out the door. This is the second time in like a month that he has broken out of jail. The first time being his leap of faith through the window screen. Well not so much through, but knocked out and over it. I tell hubby all the time....ALL....THE.....TIME....to not leave the door so freak'n wide open when he goes out. Not only does he leave it wide open, but he does not bother to look around to make sure that Kodi is not lurking nearby waiting for the opportunity to bolt. Well last night Kodi bolted. Right out the back door and under the deck. He tried to run around to the front of the house, but hubby executed a successful block. Instead, the cat hid under the deck. And if you have not seen my deck....its huge. And multi leveled. He would run under one level, to another, to another, and back. It was awful. I never knew where to go. I was running around, up steps, down steps, crawling under the highest level....which was not fun! One word....Spiders. And then Kodi ended up under the lowest level deck. And there is no possible way a human can crawl under there. So there he sat, munching on some kind of vegetation, while I crawled around in the wet dirt and rocks on my hands and knees....in shorts...panicking. I think he was enjoying my pain and suffering. I finally ran back into the house and opened a can of food and took that outside on a paper plate to try and coax him out. But to do so, I had to pull the lattice work off the side of that part of the deck. Which I did....and did not care in the least if that pissed off the hubby. I wanted my cat. After I dismantled the deck I knelt down in the wet dirt again and put the plate of food under the deck. Kodi, being the pig that he is, went right for the food. I kept pulling it back towards me, and he kept coming for the food. When he was within reach I grabbed him. He was put in timeout in his room for an hour or so. Unfortunately Alyeska went in there with him. She totally panicked when he went outside. She was running from window to window. She knew he had made a break for freedom, and she didn't like it any more than I did. So she went in there with him with no complaints. I just do not understand why hubby could not have at least said "Sorry." Nothing. Not a thing from him. And I just wanted to drop it because I knew I would bitch him out. A little while later something was said to Kodi about running out, and I said something to hubby about him leaving the door wide open....and he blamed the cat! It was not his fault that the cat runs out the door. Ummmmm YAH IT IS! Don't leave the freaking door wide open!
So to make sure this does not happen again, I'm going to put the cats in their room when hubby is BBQing. I just can't trust that guy to watch for the cats before opening doors.....